From the Heart of Indiana

Twin “Connection”

2011-04-12T14:29:00.000-04:00

Scientists will tell you that twins share a special bond – a connection that the rest of us can’t quite understand. As the mother of twins, I’ve witnessed this “connection” from the moment my two were just a few days old. I remember entering the ICU one day and seeing their incubators pushed together. The nurses told me that the girls were both fussy and the minute they pushed the incubators close (where they could sense each other), they both quieted down and went to sleep. That was the first of MANY stories I could share over the past 30 years.

When Colleen married Jimmy, Katie was the Maid of Honor and I remember her speech leaving the room a mass of tears and tissues.

So, when Katie married Santiago, I knew it would be an emotional day for the two of them. Three sisters (Carrie, Chrissie and Kelli) walked down the aisle with beautiful smiles. Matron of honor, and twin sister Colleen, couldn’t hide her emotions.

Colleen didn’t disappoint with her speech. The most touching moment was when Colleen told a story of Jimmy being out of town on business and Katie offering to spend the night. Benjamin was an infant – and he was having a fussy night. Colleen got up in the middle of the night to find Katie, sitting in his nursery – rocking him. Benjamin looked up at his mother, then looked at Katie, and then back at his mother – and he smiled – as if to say, “if I cry hard enough – they multiply”.

Is there anything more beautiful than the emotion captured in photographs??

Survivors…..

2011-04-10T10:10:00.000-04:00

Last summer, Carrie and I traveled to Hawaii. One of the highpoints of our trip was our morning at Pearl Harbor. I had visited the site 25 years ago, and I couldn’t wait to share the experience with Carrie. All these years later, and now being the mother of a veteran – it bothered me more this time. It meant more to me this time.

We picked up our tickets for the specified shuttle out to the memorial and then spent a little time wandering through the gift shop and visiting the exhibits. As we came around the corner, we saw a small group of people gathered around a table and as we approached, we saw this sign.

We soon learned that one morning each week, a small group of survivors come to the site for one hour and meet with visitors and sign autographs. Each of them had a copy of their bio, along with what they doing that morning.

These men had to all be in their 90’s. I asked one of them, how many survivors were left on the island. He told me, but he said that only a handful of them were physically able to make this weekly visit.

I wanted so badly to give him a hug. I told him that I was the mother of a veteran of the war in Iraq, and he immediately wrote a message of “thanks” on his bio sheet for my son. Sixty years divided them in age, but they were linked by something greater.

SCENTSY “WELCOME”

2011-04-09T10:08:00.000-04:00

If you happen to have a family member or friend celebrating moving into a new home - “WELCOME” would be the perfect housewarming gift. (The pineapple has traditionally served as a symbol of hospitality and warm welcome through the history of America.

Just think how much your friends will enjoy their “WELCOME” warmer, along with a couple of scent bars of “Welcome Home” or “Home Sweet Home”. This one is sure to put a smile on their face and become a welcome addition to their new home.

The Best Journey Takes You Home….

2011-04-08T09:49:00.000-04:00

Last summer, we traveled “home”. For us, that means the small, Southern Illinois town of Greenville. It’s where I grew up, went to high school and college, fell in love, married and started a family.

This little town has one grocery store and one McDonalds. The County Courthouse sits on the town square, surrounded by mom & pop businesses. Even after being away from there for 30 years, I can still walk down the street and see someone I went to high school with, or someone who new my mom and dad.

My in-laws still live there. In July, they celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary. Sixty years of marriage, seven children, 23 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren.

It was a wonderful weekend of stories and photographs and best of all, FAMILY. All of our children were able to make it, and all but one grandchild (due to a Flower Girl commitment in Indiana).

I am blessed beyond means.

My Three Sons…..

2011-04-03T10:27:00.000-04:00

I look at these three "characters" and pity my poor grandmother. Three boys within 5 years of each other. I don't know who I should feel more sorry for - my Grandmother or their poor older sister (my Aunt Dorothy - the only girl).

That would be my dad in the middle, with Uncle Bob on the left and Uncle Jim on the right. This photo was taken around 1931 and my dad would have been about 16.

Uncle Jim died in 1969, Uncle Bob in 1971 and my dad in 1998.

Pioneer Woman’s “Black Heels to Tractor Wheels”

2011-04-02T08:30:00.000-04:00

A few weeks ago, I downloaded Ree Drummond’s book onto my Kindle. I’ve spent whatever “spare” time I could find, curled up with Ree’s real life love story of how she met and fell in love with “Marlboro Man”. How she went from living the “country club” life to becoming a rancher’s wife. I’m telling you girls – we all need a little Oklahoma cowboy in our lives!! I’ve been a fan of her blog for several years, so I knew the characters. It was just a fun and easy read. If you haven’t fallen in love with Ree and her blog (or set your sights on Marlboro Man), I suggest you high tail it right on over to her website. You’re in for a treat!

The Pioneer Woman

Oh, the Things You Will See……

2011-04-01T10:23:00.000-04:00

I’ve had my little Scentsy business for over two years now. A year ago, my team consisted of 37 consultants. Today, I’m at 123. I never planned this. I never dreamed the success afforded by this venture. I work hard, but I love it. The rewards are more than I could have ever dreamed. Six months after starting my business, I had earned an Alaskan Cruise. Because we were “between” the two weddings of 2009, Bob chose not to spend the extra money to join me – but my little brother couldn’t sign up fast enough. We sailed for 7 days, seeing sights I never knew existed. I’m a palm tree and sunshine girl, but the Alaskan vistas brought tears to my eyes. It’s a trip I’ll never forget.

Less than a year later, I had earned my second trip – HAWAII. It had been more than 20 years since Bob and I had visited our 50th state, and because he had been before, he graciously gave up his spot to our oldest daughter Carrie. We had the most wonderful mother/daughter trip – 7 days in “paradise”. We did a few things I had experienced before – snorkeling at Hanauma Bay and visiting Pearl Harbor. Somehow, I let my adventurous daughter talk me into zip-lining and I have to admit that I LOVED IT!! We stood atop an active volcano, ate sushi and watched the sea turtles bask in the sun. It was a perfect trip!!

I’d only been home from Hawaii for 6 weeks when I found out I’d earned a trip for two to Boston in late September. I knew this was one I was going to include my husband with. Mainly because one of the “perks” of the trip was a private breakfast tour of Fenway Park. Now, don’t get me wrong – he’s a St. Louis Cardinal fan through and through, but he appreciates the history and tradition behind the oldest ballpark in the country. He wore this baseball cap for one day, and then took it home and gave it to his grandson. :)

We had LOTS of clam chowder, walked the Freedom Trail and soaked up the history of Boston on this wonderful trip!!

We came home from Boston and I hit the ground running – determined to earn the next incentive trip to Disney World. Even though we’ve been there more times than I can count, I knew a Disney trip that had the “Scentsy” touch, would be like nothing I’d ever experienced. Plus, for the first time they were offering a “family” trip. Could I possibly earn it for more than just the two of us? By January 31st when the promotion had ended – I had earned the trip for not only Bob and I, but for Kevin and Kelli too. The last time we took the two of them to Disney World, they were 8 and 12.

In 10 short weeks, we’ll experience it all together – again. I can’t wait!!

Thinking SUMMER….

2011-03-31T13:30:00.000-04:00

OK, so it’s been in the mid 20’s every morning this week – when I’ve crawled out of bed at 6:00 a.m. I think the WNDU weather man is stuck on the phrase, “high of 40 and sunshine”. It’s almost April – let’s get some WARMTH back in our lives!!!!

So, I mailed off the deposit check this week – for our little cabin at Fuller’s Resort. The last week of July, I plan to lay in my lounge chair, read my Kindle and watch my grandchildren soak up the sun and sand. No cable, no internet, no business to run for seven entire days. Cooking on the grill and s’mores on the campfire every evening. Add to that at least 2 trips a day to the General Store for hand-dipped cones, and my summer will be complete.

Fuller's Resort - Buchanan, Michigan

Do You “GLEE”?

2011-03-30T13:24:00.000-04:00

There’s no two ways about it. I’m addicted. I plan my life around Tuesday evenings and the toils and turmoil surrounding the kids and staff of William McKinley High School. I can’t wait to hear the banter between Sue Sylvester and Will Schuester. The season finale is just around the corner. What will I possibly do during the long summer hiatus? Re-watch the past two seasons on DVD for the umpteenth time?

Probably.

5 Things I Can’t Live Without…..

2011-03-29T11:13:00.014-04:00

There are just certain things I can’t get through my day without. I mean, you know the basics – air, food and water would be staples. But there are things that are on my mind when I wake and when I close my eyes at the end of a long day.

Number ONE – my children. They are my life. My soul purpose on this earth is to be their mother.

Number TWO – my husband. Aside from spending the last 35 years as a mother, I’ve spent the past 37 years of my life as his wife.

Number THREE – my grandchildren. There are currently 6 of them, but we’ll be blessed with 2 more later this year.

Number FOUR – my Kindle. I’m an avid reader. There are boxes of books in my basement – all in need of a good home. That’s because I purchased a Kindle almost a year ago, and my life hasn’t been the same since. It slips into my purse and goes with me everywhere!!

Number FIVE – my Keurig. I’m addicted. No less than a dozen different flavors in my pantry as I type. Green Mountain Southern Pecan tops my list of all-time favorites.

Christmas in Indiana

2010-12-23T20:35:00.001-05:00

It’s another Christmas season here in Indiana. Has it really been almost 24 years since we packed up our little family (at the time) and moved them to South Bend? At that time, our family consisted of Bob and I and 5 children. Tomorrow evening, when we gather around the Christmas tree, there will be 21 of us – 7 children, 6 grandchildren, 4 son-in-laws, 1 daughter-in-law, and 1 boyfriend.

Presents surround our tree. Food will be plentiful. We are blessed.

Montpelier

2010-08-25T17:15:00.000-04:00

As the final days of August slip away, September is just around the corner. And for those of us here in Northern Indiana, that means college football season and cheering on the IRISH (at least most of us). The leaves will quickly change colors, and we prepare our homes for the decor and smells of Autumn.

Scentsy introduces MONTPELIER as it’s Warmer of the Month for September, along with MAPLE BUTTER as the Scent of the Month. Mmmmmmmm – I can smell it now!!

Yeah…This is “Paradise”

2010-08-12T17:17:00.000-04:00

Carrie and I vacationed in Hawaii in June. When we checked into our resort on the big island, it was almost sunset as we headed for our room. There are no windows in the lobby area – all open air. We walked across and looked out at the ocean vista and heard the sound of a conch shell being blown. Every evening at sunset, this young man ran across the grounds, lighting the torches and blowing the shell – signaling another day’s end – in paradise.

Soft Spot for Tough Guys….

2010-08-05T15:30:00.000-04:00

My son is a Marine. He served six year in the Corp and even though his service ended a few years ago, I have learned that there is no such thing as a “former” Marine. I still see the effects of that life in his actions today. The way he conducts himself, the way he stands, the way he treats those around him. It’s something instilled within. Something I tried to do for 21 years. The Marine Corp managed it in 13 weeks.

SCENTSY just introduced their line of Military warmers. They are all extremely beautiful and a fitting tribute to our men and women in the armed forces. I will be proud to display this Marine Corp warmer in my home, right along with photographs of my son during his years of service.

SEMPER FI

Summer Sun, Amazing Family and a Trip to the “Lou”.

2010-08-04T21:36:00.000-04:00

Last month, we took a family trip to St. Louis. And when I say family, I mean four car loads of us, spread out over several days. We all traveled to southern Illinois to celebrate the 60th wedding anniversary of my in-laws. It was a fantastic weekend, surrounded by our ever-growing Knight family. I look at this photo and realize that I was the first daughter-in-law, and we gave them their first grandchild and their first great grandchild. We are all surrounded by the strength and love of this amazing family.

Aside from swimming and golfing and touring Busch Stadium, we spent quality time with those we love.

Carrie and Kelli and I took Nolan, Grace and Jack and spent a morning at Grant’s Farm in St. Louis Giant snow cones, kettle corn, carousel rides, and Grace’s participation in the Wildlife Show, made this the perfect day. We finished it by following the yellow horseshoes across the parking lot – which led us to the stables and training area for the Budweiser’s Clydesdales. Beautiful and AMAZING!!

It’s Been Good To Me…..

2010-08-04T18:44:00.000-04:00

I went into business for myself about 18 months ago.

It’s been good to me.

It’s brought new people into my life.

It’s sent me places I never thought I’d go.

Thanks to Scentsy, in the past year I’ve cruised to Alaska with my little brother, where we watched a bald eagle sore over an Alaskan landscape and a whale play in the waters off the coast of Sitka.

I’ve stood next to an iceberg and felt extremely “small” and “insignificant”.

It let me experience Hawaii with my daughter and watch the thrill on her face as we stood atop an active volcano, and atop the final resting place of the sailors who died at Pearl Harbor.

And now, in six weeks I will fly to Boston for a week with my husband. My latest Scentsy accomplishment. Last night, he told me that he never dreamed that some day he’d see Fenway Park. In September, he will.

Another chapter in our lives – thanks to Scentsy.

Reality Check…..

2010-08-01T22:39:00.001-04:00

After ten days off, tomorrow it’s back to work. We just returned home from the most relaxing week of vacation at Fuller’s Resort on Clear Lake in Buchanan, Michigan. We spent the week with our daughter Carrie and son-in-law Joe and our grandchildren, Nolan, Grace and Jack. Our cabin overlooked the lake. We had two bedrooms, a full kitchen, and a large living room area with another double bed and a futon, so we had plenty of sleeping space. Every night was musical beds, and many times we didn’t end up where we started. :)

We spent every day on the beach. We were usually the first ones down there, spreading out our belongings and making camp for the day. Our daily attire consisted of swimsuits, plenty of sunscreen and a good pair of sunglasses. On Saturday, they offered a “craft day” and Grace and I made blueberry cobblers with fresh, picked blueberries. We ate ice cream cones from the General Store. Blue Moon was Jack’s favorite. We worked puzzles. We watched “The Bad News Bears” twice, and we made s’mores on more than one occasion. Just pretty simple stuff, and that’s what made it so special.

We’ve booked it again for next July. In the words of 8 year old Nolan, “Grandma, I want to do this every year”.

The “Colors” of Summer

2010-07-22T10:01:00.001-04:00

My friend Jenny Hoke has done it again – provided us with beautiful photos of our daughter Colleen, her husband Jimmy and our handsome little grandsons – Benjamin and A.J. Besides being a photogenic group, add to that the beauty of the water and dunes of New Buffalo and you’ve got a winning combination.

Slacker…..

2010-07-22T09:50:00.001-04:00

That’s what I’ve been for the past few months. A BLOG SLACKER. No excuses for the fact that I had a high school senior playing her final spring sport, her graduation, a trip to Hawaii, one BIG graduation party to pull off, a 60th wedding anniversary, let alone a business to run. Now, I’m preparing for a week at a lake cabin – where I plan to rest and recoup from all of the above. AND hopefully upload photographs and bring my BLOG back to life.

Stay tuned……

Vegas Night Results…..

2010-03-26T21:44:00.003-04:00

Clay High School hosts their annual Vegas Night (for the Athletic program) every March. Besides the typical gaming and tip boards, each sport is supposed to sponsor a Silent Auction Table. This was my 2nd year of chairing the auction table for the softball program. The event was held last weekend. This afternoon, I spoke to the Board Treasurer, and was informed that our Softball Table was the highest money maker. I’m glad to hand the reigns over to the next group of moms, and I’m even MORE glad that I went out with a “bang”.

Eighteen Years and Counting…..

2010-03-07T20:29:00.001-05:00

Kelli and Michael have grown up together - just down the street from each other. In fact Mary Lou and I were pregnant with them at the same time. They've celebrated Birthdays and Christmas together for 18 years. Sometimes when one or the other is having a problem, they'll hop in the car and head to Hacienda for dinner and a chance to just "catch up" on each other's life.

High school is almost over and soon they'll be separated by college - but I'm sure their friendship will continue through the years.

Here's a photo taken during the spring of their 5th grade year at Corpus Christi - seven years ago. Kelli had just been awarded this plaque from her coaches and teammates on the girl's basketball team - showing a newspaper article of her brother, playing basketball at a deserted university outside of Baghdad. A plaque that still hangs proudly in our home.

GOOD SMELLS FOR THE SPORTS-MINDED

2010-03-07T07:58:00.001-05:00

Last summer, Scentsy came out with PLAY BALL - a baseball warmer, which was a real "hit".

This summer, they are completing the sports line with GAME DAY, WORLD CUP and FULL COURT. These warmers will be a perfect addition to your athlete's bedroom - or maybe for your armchair quarterback. Price per warmer is $30, but you can earn it for free by hosting a home or basket party. Contact me for details.

www.pattyk.scentsy.us

What a Difference a Few Years Makes…..

2010-03-06T09:22:00.001-05:00

I came across a photo I took of Kelli about 6 years ago - one of those summer afternoons that we headed to the beach at New Buffalo.

In looking at it, I realized that 6 years later we stood on this same beach with my friend Jenny Hoke and did Kelli's senior photo shoot. A cute little kid has grown into a beautiful young woman.

Thank you GOD, for blessing our family with Kelli.

Not One Bit Camera Shy…..

2010-03-04T20:38:00.001-05:00

It's been almost 7 years since the war in Iraq started. It seems like a lifetime ago. Those months are still a blur in my memory - probably due to a whole lot of stress and very little sleep. I think I just "functioned". Kelli was the baby - 10 years old when Bobby left. For such a little girl, she knew exactly what was going on. She had a very "adult" view point on everything and wasn't afraid to voice her opinion. For those of you who know her today, I'm sure that doesn't surprise you. I came across this photo from the morning his unit left. We were standing in a family group, talking. She was standing with her poster she'd made. The next thing I knew, I saw a reporter across the room motion to Kelli. With no prodding on my part, Kelli walked across the room and proceeded to be interviewed for the evening news.

A few minutes later, they asked her Marine to join her. I remember Bobby putting his arm around Kelli's shoulders and stating that "this is all the reason I need to come home safely".

Thankfully, he did.

ROOTS

2010-03-03T20:29:00.001-05:00

My friend Lisa loves Geneology. I wish I had the time and energy to trace my family roots as she has done. Instead, I leave everything in the more than capable hands of my cousin-in-law Cindy, in Colorado. Cindy has traced the MILHAM family (my father, her mother-in-law) back 6 and 7 generations to England. Thanks to all of Cindy's dedication and hard work, I've been able to print out everything and keep it intact for my children. I've been able to collect some wonderful photos from my mom and my recently deceased Aunt Mabel - photos of my dad as a baby and a teenager. In the first photo, my dad is the baby - along with my Aunt Dorothy and my Uncle Jim. Uncle Bob would come along a few years later.

The second photo shows the three boys in 1939 - my dad in the middle. I look at these three and pity my poor grandmother!!!

OK, so I don't trace my roots - but I do create my scrapbooks. Someday, I'm hoping that all of the work and love I've put into these books will answer questions for those who look for answers regarding our family in years to come. A small window into our lives and our loves. My donation to the branches on our tree - made "with love" by me.

My Crazy Life and All It Entails…..

2010-02-20T14:03:00.001-05:00

How did I ever have time to run a household and raise seven children? I’m down to one child and my life is busier and more hectic than ever. I’m currently 3 weeks behind on DAYS OF OUR LIVES. My DVR is calling to me to “clean it off”. My Scentsy business is busier than I ever expected. I’m going on a Scrapbook Weekend with friends in seven days and I haven’t had time to touch my scrapbook supplies since last fall. I have 3 grandchildren spending the night tonight, and I’m trying to find things to keep them entertained. At least I don’t have two weddings to plan this year.

So, today I will close two Scentsy parties, catch up on “DAYS”, cook spaghetti for the grandkids and try to plan some layouts for next weekend.

…and be thankful for my crazy life.

A New Coat of Paint.....

2010-02-16T20:26:00.004-05:00

A new coat of paint makes all the difference in the world. My bedroom has been been "Woolen Mitten" for the past four years - shades of green and cream. Now, it's "Basque Brown" with accents of blue and cream. We moved furniture around, added a new TV and a new mattress for the bed. I'm in LOVE with my new bedroom!!!

January Warmer of the Month – Hugs and Kisses

2010-01-13T09:37:00.001-05:00

Here’s a look at HUGS and KISSES – Scentsy’s Warmer of the Month for January. I was surprised when I received it – it’s actually much more of a dark red than these photos show. Pair up this warmer with some scents like – LUCKY in LOVE, or FRENCH KISS, or SATIN SHEETS and you’ve got a romantic Valentine’s gift for that perfect someone!!!

November Wedding – Sneak Peak

2010-01-13T09:12:00.001-05:00

We’re getting our first look at some of the professional photos from Katie and Santiago’s wedding in November. Can’t wait to get my hands on the CD with all the photos. Mark Coffman (the photographer) spent about 14 hours with us that day – from the early morning preparations at the Innisfree Bed and Breakfast, to the Mass at St. Adalbert, to the downtown South Bend shots, to Corby’s and to the reception at St. Hedwig. He was always there – camera in hand –capturing those special moments.

….And So It Begins

2010-01-12T14:15:00.001-05:00

For those of you who know us, you know that high school and college softball have ruled this household for the past 20 years. Carrie, Katie, Colleen, Chrissie and now Kelli. The four older girls all played for John Woodruff during his LaSalle years. Carrie went on to make the Notre Dame team as a walk-on. Katie, Colleen and Chrissie all received scholarships to play for Lake Michigan College. Years of high school seasons, summer travel teams and college ball has consumed our lives. The only “break” we got were the four years of baseball with Kevin – in between Chrissie and Kelli.

I was digging through the guest room closet the other day and came across the old red/black LaSalle Letter Jackets of the older kids. Now, the purple/gold of Clay are added to that closet. I remember when Kevin first came home with his jacket – and the twins told him he couldn’t hang that Clay jacket in the same closet with their LaSalle jackets.

Tonight, we begin the final leg. Kelli starts her senior year with tonight’s conditioning. My last season of being a “team mom”. My last spring to sit huddled under three layers of blankets and afghans. In some ways, we’ve come full circle. Katie (daughter number 2) will be the Assistant Coach, under John Woodruff – her former high school coach, who is now at the reign of the Adams High School Softball Program. I’m sure it won’t be easy for either Katie or Kelli when Clay and Adams face off this spring.

I remember three years ago, as a freshman – Kelli telling me how an upperclassman on the team had taken her “under her wing” and what that meant to her. Last night, I attended the Athletic Board Meeting as we begin our preparation for our Athletic Vegas Night in March. A freshman mom sat with me and told me that her daughter had come home the night before – all excited because “Kelli Knight said “hi” to me today at school”. The upperclassman taking a new freshman under wing. I guess what goes around – comes around.

At that moment, I couldn’t have been prouder.

After 20 years, I’ll have my life back this summer.

Will I miss it?

Of course.

Grandpa…..Can I Sleep With Grandma?

2010-01-11T10:40:00.001-05:00

This is Grace Urbanski – grandchild number 2 – age 5.

Grace, along with her mom and dad and 2 brothers live about 40 minutes from Grandma and Grandpa. Mommy teaches here in South Bend and they commute every day. Sometimes, when Daddy is out of town on business, they spend the night at our house and go to school in the morning – which is 5 minutes from our house. Yesterday was one of those days. Joe left for Vegas, Carrie and the kids spent Sunday afternoon with us and we had a “sleepover”. About 8:00 last night, Carrie is getting Nolan and Jack ready for bed and Grace finds Grandpa lying on the couch in the family room – watching football. The conversation went something like this…..

“Grandpa – can I sleep with Grandma?”

“Well, where’s Grandpa going to sleep?”

“Right where you are.”

Unfortunately, Grandpa won out, and Grace settled for a pile of blankets on the floor – next to Grandma’s side of the bed.

January in Northern Indiana….

2010-01-07T11:11:00.001-05:00

It’s always this time of year that I ask myself, “why do I choose to live here?” It’s cold and it snows continually and the sun NEVER shines. I grew up in southern Illinois. If we got 6” of snow, school shut down. Here in northern Indiana, it takes at least a foot or more of snow and even then, school rarely cancels. Growing up, I never heard of “system snow” and “lake effect”. Spend 20 years living on the southeastern edge of Lake Michigan and you quickly become accustomed to lake effect snow.

We learn to dress in layers, we pre-heat our cars and we can’t function without a snow blower. We send the dog outside to do “his thing” and he looks at us like “you’re kidding me, right?” Our cars are covered with salt and dirty snow until spring.

I guess living through these months, makes us even more appreciative of the first signs of spring. As for me, I’m dreaming of June and a Mother/Daughter trip to Hawaii with Carrie. So, while I watch the snow fall outside my office window and feel the little space heater blowing hot air onto my feet – I’m finding photos of our resort and setting them up as backgrounds on my computer.

Anything to get me through another January in Northern Indiana.

Grandsons….

2010-01-05T10:06:00.001-05:00

I have four of them. These two belong to Colleen. This is Benjamin Van Fleit. He’s 4 – going on 21.

This is A. J. Van Fleit. He’s 1. He’s Grandma’s little “charmer”.

These beautiful photos were taken by my friend Jenny Hoke. She has become our official family photographer over the past year. She has photographed all of my grandchildren and even did Kelli’s Senior Photos for me. Next weekend, she’s doing Bob and I and our adult children. Can’t wait!!!

Dreaming of June…..

2010-01-05T10:01:00.001-05:00

I’ve been selling Scentsy for almost a year. It’s become a HUGE part of my life and besides giving a major boost to our income, it’s allowed me the chance to visit Alaska this past September – all expenses paid. Next on my agenda – Hawaii in June. Amidst the snow and cold of northern Indiana in January, I hear the Big Island calling my name.

Turned Out Just How I Wanted….

2009-12-30T22:02:00.001-05:00

I had a plan. I found the INNISFREE, an Irish/Celtic Bed and Breakfast here in South Bend. My idea was to book the 3rd floor suite and have it for my five daughters to use the night before the wedding. Kind of a final “slumber party” for the sisters. At the last minute, I booked a room for Arlette and I to join the girls. Our hostess called me that morning and informed me that we were the only guests in the house and she was going to give me a complimentary room – so Arlette and I had our own rooms – and we had the entire house at our disposal.

We checked in before the rehearsal. Dropped off our bags and our wedding attire and then headed to the church and the rehearsal dinner. After dinner, some of the sisters stopped for a drink, but Carrie and Arlette and Kelli and I took Grace and went to the Innisfree.

You know how you get when you’ve drank some wine and you’re tired and you spend time with a bunch of girls? Well these pictures show how the evening went.

Don’t ask…..

This night ended up being EXACTLY what I wanted. One last night with all my girls. Tomorrow, my 4th daughter will marry.

Family Entertainers…..

2009-12-30T21:26:00.001-05:00

Carrie’s home was overflowing on Thanksgiving. Out-of -state company had started arriving for Katie’s wedding and Carrie volunteered to take some away some of my stress and host Thanksgiving. Once dinner was finished, we were “entertained” by the kids with Nolan’s “Rock Band”. Looks like both GREAT GRANDMOTHERS are enjoying the show!!

Florida Boy Meets Notre Dame…..

2009-12-30T13:15:00.001-05:00

Lance has been here one other time – when he was TWO. He was the Ring Bearer for Carrie and Joe 11 years ago. Two-Year-Olds don’t care about Notre Dame and all the tradition it entails. Thirteen-Year-Olds have a little different view point.

First stop was the Book Store, where we made a major DENT in his father’s credit card.

Then we made a stop at the Grotto and the Golden Dome. His last question to me…..”Um Aunt Patty, do you have to be this religion to go here?”

Nope honey – just keep those straight A’s going and you can be a “Domer” if you have your heart set on it.

Florida Comes to Visit…..

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My Florida Family came to visit last month – to celebrate Katie’s Wedding and Thanksgiving. We hit the ground running as soon as their plane landed. Actually, my sister-in-law Arlette and my nephew Lance flew in on Tuesday. My brother and my mother arrived on Wednesday night, due to his work schedule – and the fact that it was MUCH cheaper for Arlette and Lance to fly in a day earlier and stay a day later. No complaints from me!! We had fun shopping and drinking wine and planning Thanksgiving menus and drinking wine and laughing and drinking wine. Get the picture??

On Wednesday evening, us girls all went to Hacienda for drinks and some bonding time before the wedding chaos hit full force.

Here’s the bride with Aunt Arlette.

….and the bride with her twin sister Colleen, sister Chrissie and Chrissie’s two BFFs – Brianne and Melissa.

….and finally, the Three Muskateers – Brianne, Chrissie and Melissa. I’m looking at these pictures and thinking, “Dang – where did Chrissie get that tan?” And then I’m remembering that she’s only a week home from St. Martaan when these were taken.

Crop For a Cure….

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In November, Carrie and I did the Cancer Crop at the Waterford Estates Lodge. Twelve hours of non-stop scrapbooking!!! Of course, we always take too much stuff and then we spend a lot of time laughing and talking and eating. But, we really did get a lot accomplished. Next up – a weekend getaway with 8 friends at the Memory Loft in LaPorte in February. Nothing like spending a snowy, winter weekend in your jammies – scrapbooking with your bestest friends!!

A. J.’s First…..

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In October, we celebrated our A.J.’s First Birthday. The “man of honor” was surrounded by his mommy and daddy, his big brother Benjamin, his grandparents, all of his aunts and uncles, his cousins and his God-parents. All these people to help one little boy celebrate his big day. And celebrate, we did!!!

Slacker…..

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I used to be such a good blogger. I updated several times a week and kept my family (who’s spread out all over the country) in touch with all the happenings here in northern Indiana. I have had plenty of excuses over the past year – a new business venture, two weddings and a trip to Alaska. Just recently, I had a friend inform me that I hadn’t updated my blog since my September cruise. I promised her I’d get busy on that.

So – thanks Claire. I’m back and I’m ready to bring my blog back to life!!

SCENTSY’S Holiday Collection

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It’s not too late to get one of these adorable warmers. Unfortunately HEAVENLY sold out earlier this week and I’ve heard rumors that the RED SNOWFLAKE and SNOWDAY aren’t far behind. Email me if you want one and I’ll add it on with orders going in this week and you can take advantage of FREE SHIPPING!!! If you want to check out my website, click here: Patty's Scentsy Website

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 6

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Ketchikan was our last Alaskan stop – and my favorite. Unfortunately, it was also our shortest stop. We really didn’t do anything out of the ordinary here. We did go to a fun, lumberjack show and browsed through the quaint shops on Creek Street. I think Ketchikan just struck me as being what I really “expected” Alaska to be. A little town along the water’s edge, with mountains surrounding the town. Fishermen and lumberjacks and totem poles and salmon. I really did LOVE Ketchikan.

Throughout the town – Totem Poles of every shape and color. All of my grandsons were the recipients of Totem Poles when Grandma came home to Indiana.

And then there is Creek Street. Basically a street of shops and buildings built on stilts over the creek. Lots of charm, but kind of “funky” smelling.

One of the most “infamous” buildings on Creek Street is Dolly’s House. Ketchikan had legalized prostitution until the 1950’s and Dolly was made a name for herself in Ketchikan.

On our way back to the ship, we came across a man who was raising an injured Bald Eagle. She was considered an “immature” female because she is less than 5 years old and has not gotten her white crown of feathers. He stood and talked to us and explained what she ate and how she lived. She knows that he has a treat in his pocket – and she’s looking for it.

And finally, after once last scurry to find those last minute souvenirs – it was time to get back on board the Amsterdam. By early afternoon, we had set sail. Next stop is Victoria, Canada – 6:00 tomorrow evening.

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 5

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Wednesday, September 23rd. Today would have been my dad’s birthday – and today, his children are going on a wildlife excursion in Sitka, Alaska. My dad was an avid fisherman and hunter, so this day would have been memorable for him.

Sitka, Alaska is a fishing village – pure and simple. I even saw an ad on television (after I got home from the cruise) and it was filmed in Sitka. Something to do with dry, winter skin.

We had to tender here – which means that there is not an area where the ship can dock. So, the small boats come out and meet the ship and we walk down a flight of steps and onto a smaller boat to be transported to the port. For us, we had this excursion booked – so our boat picked us up at the ship and we headed out to see some wildlife.

See how the steps just open up in the side of the ship?

… and there’s our ship, as we’re sailing away from it.

Now, this excursion was titled “Sea Otter and Wildlife Excursion”. In the small print on the brochure, it stated that we were guaranteed to see EITHER a sea otter, a bear or a whale. If not, they would refund $100 cash to each person on the tour. Now, let me just say that they had their butts covered, because sea otters in Alaska are like squirrels in Northern Indiana.

The trip started off with rain and rough seas. We were enclosed in the cabin of the boat, so were warm and dry, but the windows were fogged up and covered with water. One of the deck hands would walk around the outside, using a squeegee on the windows. I have to admit that at first, I was discouraged. It wasn’t long and they had spotted the sea otters. The rain and rough seas didn’t seem to bother these little guys one bit. These photos aren’t the greatest because they were taken through the window of the boat.

Finally, the rain subsided, the seas calmed down a little and we continued along the shore in search of other wildlife. Our guide pointed out a Bald Eagle Nest. I swear, this thing was the size of a bushel basket!!

We had a wonderful guide, who really new her business. I tried to take in all the information she shared with us. We were sailing along, our guide was talking – when suddenly, the captain cut the engine and circled back around. We were told that we should grab our cameras and go out on deck, but to be very quiet. Our guides were as excited as we were. They told us that they’d only seen ONE all summer and now on this tour – TODAY. I almost got teary…..

We stood there on the deck for probably 15 minutes, watching him walk down to this little stream, grab a fish and walk back to the grassy area to eat. He did this at least three times.

After seeing this bear, I couldn’t imagine that the tour could get any better. We were now told that they were going to start back toward Sitka, because there had been a whale sighting. We’d just have to wait and see.

As we sailed along, our guide pointed out an immature bald eagle. We learned that this eagle was under the age of five, because they don’t get the beautiful “white crown” of feathers until they reach the age of five.

As we headed out into the open waters, our guide asked that everyone start watching the surface of the water. She explained that the first thing we’d see would be the water spout as the whale started to surface. In a matter of minutes, the spout was sighted – and my day was complete!!

We watched this guy play around for about a half hour before finally heading back to our ship. And what a beautiful site it was.

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 4

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Day 4 of our Alaskan Adventure – cruising the Hubbard Glacier. I really didn’t know what to expect from this. I mean, I thought we’d run out on deck for 15-20 minutes, snap some photos and head back inside. Little did I know that we would be utterly entranced, that we’d spend nearly 2 hours on deck, taking a hundred photos.

The morning was beautiful – mild temps, a hint of sunshine and calm seas.

We strolled along the Lido Deck just in time to see them wheel out the Alaskan version of Apple Cobbler. Can you say “YUM?”

After lunch, we noticed that the temperatures started to drop and the skies clouded as we approached the glacier. We got into our warm clothes, grabbed our gloves and something warm to drink and headed out on deck to get our first glimpse of the Hubbard Glacier.

See how it “snakes” back like a river. Well that’s just what it is – a river of moving ice. Moves 18’ a year. And that “river” goes back 75 miles inland. You think this looks “awesome” – just wait. We sailed right up to it!!

This was how a lot of people bided their time until we got closer – wrapped in blankets on the deck chairs. The staff even walked around with trays of hot, pea soup. Can anyone say “Titanic?”

The closer we got, the more amazing the views. This thing rises 380’ out of the water and another 200’ below the surface.

As we stood and watched, we’d here a sound like a rifle shot. It was actually the sound that was made when a piece of the glacier broke off and fell into the water. This process is called “calving”.

The reason it’s blue? Has something to do with light and ice crystals and the fact that blue is the last color to be able to escape from the prism.

…and now, we’re getting close!!!

I think this was the day I felt very insignificant.

Fall Frolic

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I’m a year behind on my scrapbook pages – thanks in part to two weddings that I’ll NEVER get scrapbooked!

Anyway, here’s Benjamin enjoying a pile of leaves at his GREAT Grandma’s house last Thanksgiving.

One Year Ago Today….

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The photos aren’t so good – thanks to hospital lighting, but the scrapbook page tells it all.

Happy Birthday to my husband and our 6th grandchild today – October 19th.

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 3

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After a rough day at sea on Sunday, we woke on Monday morning to calm seas and our first look at the beauty of Alaska. We weren’t the only ship making the journey through the calm waters. This was our view as we sailed toward Juneau. Snow-capped mountains that seemed to go on forever.

After a day when a lot of people stayed in their rooms to avoid the high seas, Monday morning brought many of us out on the deck. The temperatures weren’t too cold and we were approaching our first port.

Juneau wasn’t at all what I expected from a state capital. No big buildings, taxis, congested traffic. It was a fishing village and tourist destination, thanks to the cruise line. We were told that Anchorage resembles any other big city in the U.S. – but not Juneau.

We did a lot of souvenir shopping in Juneau. Met a local artist who’s son went to Notre Dame and he talked about visiting South Bend on many occasions. After a couple hours of visiting all the quaint little shops, we were ready for some nourishment. I know it doesn’t surprise you to learn that we headed straight to the Red Dog Saloon. This place was PACKED! There was some old guy in here playing a piano and singing, sawdust covered the floor and the waiters were rude and had a lot of fun with the customers.

A bowl of salmon chowder and I was ready for our next adventure – the tramway up the side of Mt. Roberts.

The Mt. Roberts Tramway is one of the areas favorite tourist attractions. Frank wasn’t too thrilled with spending $25 to ride a tram up the side of the mountain – but once up there, he changed his tune.

There was a Nature Center atop the mountain and the views were spectacular!!

There’s our ship!!

This pretty girl was a resident of the Nature Center. She had been shot with a pellet gun and blinded in one eye. Her collarbone was also broke and she could no longer fly. She was rescued and kept here at the Center, because she could no longer hunt and take care of herself in the wild.

Uhhhh – no thanks. I think I’ll be taking the tram back down.

Once back on the city streets of Juneau, we hopped aboard a bus and attended a Salmon Bake with some of our other “Scentsy Friends”. This pretty girl met us at the entrance to the Salmon Bake. For those of you unfamiliar with the breed – she’s an Alaskan Malamute.

The salmon was fantastic!!! Cooked over a open fire with a brown sugar glaze. They had fire pits where we could roast marshmallows. The location was set up along a creek and this was the perfect way to end our day in Juneau.

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 2

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My first memory of Day 2 was waking at 2:15 AM and NOT finding my brother in the room. His last words to me were, “I’m going up to the Crow’s Nest for a beer”. That was at 10:00 PM. So, I lay there for a while thinking that tomorrow I’d be interviewed on the TODAY Show – about how my little brother got drunk and fell overboard somewhere in the North Pacific. About the time that I let my mind go a little crazy, he walked in the room. My first words were “WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN??!!” His response on this day and throughout the remainder of the week….”with my Scentsy friends”. I thanked GOD, rolled over and went back to sleep.

Sunday was a rough day. The seas were bad – 12-15 foot swells. We were up early and headed to the Lido Deck for breakfast. Inside the elevators were these nice little floor mats that kept us in touch with the day of the week - ‘cause you know when you’re on vacation, you tend to FORGET!!

I was doing “ok” – but only because I’d taken my Bonine. A lot of people were sick and MIA from the public areas of the ship. The staff served up bowls of green apples throughout the dining areas and baskets were even delivered to our rooms. Supposedly, green apples curb nausea, and I have to say that it did help. Frank and I both agreed that our spouses would never make it with these seas.

After breakfast, we strolled out by the Lido Deck Pool and I have to say that this may have been the first time I’ve ever seen “white caps” on a pool. The ship was rolling and the water couldn’t be contained in the pool. The sight of this was enough to send me back to my room for a nap.

I think I took several naps on this day. Every time I’d start to feel a little “iffy” with the seas, I’d head back to the room for a nap. In between my naps, we took a tour of the ship’s galley. It’s really amazing how they prepare the amount of food they do!!

This ship had a beautiful library and computer area, complete with DVDs that could be checked out and watched in our room. We did check out “Mystery, Alaska”. I mean, it seemed appropriate.

By evening, the seas had calmed a little and people seemed ready to venture out and enjoy the first Formal Night and Captain’s Dinner. We made our way to the theater lounge, and met our Captain and the primary members of his crew. Then it was time to enjoy a wonderful dinner in the dining room.

…and now it’s time for a good night’s sleep. Tomorrow – JUNEAU!!!

Hoosier Girl – Alaskan Memories No. 1

2009-10-07T11:52:00.001-04:00

My “adventure” began long before I set foot on a ship in Seattle. I won’t go into details, but suffice it to say that you DON’T want to start a vacation hanging over a toilet at 2:00 a.m., when your plane leaves at 7:02 a.m. I can still hear Bob asking me, “what are you going to do?” My response was, “I’m GETTING on that plane”.

Luckily, whatever bug it was, it was fast-moving and by the time I landed in Minneapolis, I was 50% better and 3 1/2 hours later, upon landing in Seattle – I was back in control.

I stepped off the plane and followed the instructions to look for the red-shirted people from Holland America in the luggage area. I hadn’t been there five minutes and up walked my little brother – in his ND t-shirt and his Florida shorts. Enjoy those shorts today kiddo. You’ll be packing those away until NEXT Saturday!!

We retrieved our luggage and moved everything to a secure area where the Holland America staff loaded it and moved everything to the ship. We wouldn’t see our luggage again for another five hours. We hopped aboard the bus, and began the 40 minute drive to the cruise terminal – enjoying the scenic commentary from our bus driver. I snapped a couple of pictures of sport venues for the guys in my life….

As for me, I was excited to get my first glimpse of the Space Needle – even if it was through the window of a bus.

It wasn’t long and we found ourselves arriving at the cruise terminal. A bus load of HAPPY tourists, disembarked and followed the signs to check-in. Our home for the next week - the Holland America Amsterdam.

Now comes the “Disney World” lines – you know, the kind where you weave back and forth until you reach your destination? In our case, it was the smiling check-in agent. Cruise Documents – check. Passport – check. Credit Card for Sail and Sign – check. “Enjoy your cruise”. Thanks!!!! Now, one last stop to get your ID photo taken and the FINALLY, we’re ready to step on board! Notice my dear little brother carrying my backpack? Yeah, he complained. “It’s got FLOWERS on it”. (He still carried it).

We checked in at the SCENTSY Welcome Desk and picked up our Alaskan Cruise sweatshirts and ID information. We then made our way to the Lido Deck for some lunch and explored the ship to learn our way around. This was much easier – compared to the previous ship we had sailed on, which was twice the size of the Amsterdam. We made our reservation at the Pinnacle Grill (supper club), we booked our excursions, and then it was time to relax and wait for our room to be ready.

At 3:30, the announcement came that it was time to prepare for the Lifeboat Drill. For those of you who have cruised before, you know this is mandatory. Yes, it’s a “pain” to get all trussed up in this stylish garment, but for those of us who watched “Titanic”, you’ll get no complaint out of me. I felt safe though – after all, we were assigned to Lifeboat Station Number 7 – my lucky number!!

After our safety instructions, we stowed our life preservers and headed onto the outside deck to grab a drink and enjoy the “sail-away”.

And now….a much better view of the Space Needle. Goodbye Seattle – see ya’ next week!!

Thinking of Dad….

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Next week (September 23) would have been my dad’s birthday. He was a real “outdoors man” – loved to fish, hunt and just traipse around in the woods. A vacation to my dad consisted of deer hunting with his buddies, or fishing from his bass boat.

When I think of my adventure next week with my little brother, I can’t help but think of how my dad would have LOVED an adventure like this. A chance to see the unspoiled beauty of Alaska and the wildlife.

So next week, as Frank and I are sailing amidst glaciers and watching whales and sea otter frolic, I imagine my dad will be right there with us…and enjoying every minute through the eyes of his children.

A New Age of Wedding Photography

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What a difference a few years makes when it comes to wedding photography!! Today’s popular look is very photo-journalistic and this was exactly what Chrissie wanted. Andrew Conrad www.agconrad.com was the perfect match for our bride.

How about a little stroll through the streets of South Bend and some beautiful shots in front of the Morris Performing Arts Center.

The Reception…

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The reception hall was adorned in candlelight, along with shades of pink, green and burgundy. You envision things for so long and when it finally all comes together, the results are usually better than you expected.

The addition of the chair covers and chair bows were a real plus in adding to the elegance.

And, using Arlene’s Wedding Cakes is always a “must” for our family.

The “Ring Guys”

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Jack Urbanski and Benjamin Van Fleit – cousins. Their moms are older sisters of the bride. They both took their job very seriously – as seriously as you can take anything when you’re 3 1/2 years old. As long as Jack had his DS, he was fine and from the looks of this photo, Ben is trying to make sure he’s doing it the right way.

And then finally, it was time to get to work. After all, we must have some sort of special job if we had to get all dressed up like this.

Our Family Continues to Grow…..

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Last year, it was the birth of Andrew Joseph Van Fleit and this year, we gain two new son-in-laws. I look at all these faces, and wonder how I continue to be so blessed each and every day of my life.

Daddy’s Little Girl

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Life hasn’t been easy for Bob Knight – being the father of five daughters. By the end of the year, he will have walked four of them down the aisle. I think this photo of him with Chrissie, speaks volumes.

….and then relaxing with her, once the ceremony was over.

The Church…

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I think that the first time Chrissie walked into St. Monica’s two years ago, she knew this was the aisle she wanted to walk down, on the arm of her father.

The Waiting Game…..

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The limo picked us up at 7:45 a.m. We stopped to pick up bagels, muffins, juice and coffee and then it was on to St. Hedwig to pick up more bridesmaids (so they could leave their cars parked for the reception). By 8:30, we had arrived at our destination – St. Monica.

We unloaded dresses, flowers, make-up and all the necessities needed to turn these sweat pant clad kids into beautiful women. The hair stylists arrived and we all patiently waited to be transformed.

Fun and Frolic

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After months of planning and stress, the ceremony is over and it’s time to celebrate with friends and family. On their way to the reception, the limo stopped for a photo op in front of the Morris Performing Arts Center in downtown South Bend. What a perfect spot this was!!!

This photo took a couple of “takes”, but the final shot was worth the effort.

This One…..

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I think this one might belong in a bridal magazine.

….or maybe this one.

The DRESS and Vital Accessories

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A few days before Chrissie’s wedding, a friend advised me to set my camera aside and enjoy the day. As hard as this was for me, I followed that advice. I’ve been patiently waiting for the photographer to post some of his photos and late last week, my patience was rewarded.

I remember back to that morning, as bride, bridesmaids, sisters, aunts, nieces, cousins, friends and moms gathered in the church basement – and amidst all of the confusion – one lone man – Andrew Conrad, our photographer. At one point, I saw him take the dress, the shoes and the bouquet and leave the room.

….and now I know why. Who could imagine that inanimate objects could display such beauty.

Curious & Carefree

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My latest assignment for Pages in Time, using the SEI Playhouse line. Our little Anna. A carefree 2-year old full of curiosity!!

Family and Friends

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The rehearsal dinner was a time to celebrate with family and friends before the craziness of the wedding day. The Skillet allowed us to to stay as long as we wanted and just enjoy our time with each other. The room was filled with lots of LAUGHTER!!! Definitely a time to CELEBRATE!!

Rehearsal Dinner

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Friday was Kevin’s 22nd birthday and Friday night was the Rehearsal Dinner at The Skillet.

The girls started the day with pedicures and a stop at the reception hall to put out the place cards and table numbers, prior to our arrival at St. Monica. Kevin sported a tie and was ready to celebrate with his sister.

As soon as the rehearsal dinner was complete, he took off for the McKinley Pub with his dad, his uncle and his siblings for a little birthday/pre-wedding celebration. As for me, it was home and to bed for what I hoped would be a good night’s sleep prior to the “big day”.

Do You Remember?

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Do you remember your first love? Do you remember being 17 and 18 and not having a whole lot to worry about? I look at these two….and my mind drifts back about 35 years.

Something I’ve Always Wanted To Learn To Do…..

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When I was a little girl, my grandmother taught me crochet and embroider. The embroidery took me through YEARS of counted cross stitch. The crochet lessons were like riding a bike – you never forget how to do it. A couple of years ago, I crocheted afghans for all of my kids for Christmas. But, in the back of my mind I always had the desire to learn to knit. About a month ago, I discovered The Red Purl in Niles, Michigan. I signed up for a beginner’s class and that’s all it took. I love everything about it – the yarns, the colors and the way it makes me feel so relaxed when I’m working on a project. Friday nights, you can sit there amidst all that yarn, along with other knitters and work on your project. I did that a couple of weeks ago and had so much fun. This Friday night, my friend Lisa and I are going out to dinner and then spending our evening at The Red Purl.

I’m sure my grandmother would be proud to know that those early years under her guidance haven’t been forgotten – and I think of her every time I pick up a project.

SASSY…..

2009-07-31T09:25:00.001-04:00

With all the wedding plans, my scrabooking has taken a major “hit”. I’m thankful to have my monthly commitment to Pages in Time – to create a layout for the store display. I completed “SASSY” last night, using the Basic Grey line of products. Thanks to the awesome photography of my friend Jenny Hoke, I’ve got a bunch of new photos to get scrapbooked. Two weddings and an Alaskan Cruise!!!! I think my winter months will be spent hibernating in my craft room, with a major supply of adhesive!

I Earned It!!

2009-07-28T09:24:00.001-04:00

Still trying to figure out exactly how – but I’m not questioning the experts! SCENTSY ran a promotion from March 1 through June 30th – and those who qualified, earned an Alaskan Cruise. I never tracked my points. I just sold my warmers and scents and signed up a few new recruits. Imagine my surprise when I received an email from the corporate office a few weeks ago, congratulating me on earning the cruise.

With expenses from two weddings, we were unable to “buy-in” Bob’s portion – but my little brother volunteered to spend the money and join me. So, on September 19th, I’ll be flying from Chicago and he’ll be flying from Orlando and we’ll meet in Seattle, where we’ll board Holland America’s Amsterdam and cruise for 7 days – visiting Juneau, Sitka, Ketchikan, the Hubbard Glacier, before spending our last night in Victoria, Canada. EVERTHING is included, from our airfare and transfers to our gratuities. The only decision we have to come up with is whether we’re going Whale Watching, visiting a Dog Sled Camp, or flying over the Mendenhall Glacier in a helicopter. This will be my ONE week to relax between weddings. Once I come home, it will be full steam ahead to wedding number TWO!!

It’s in the Eyes…..

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My friend Jenny is a professional photographer. She specializes in children – natural light, and has been photographing my grandchildren for nearly a year. Last winter, I asked her to photograph Kelli for her senior pictures and Jenny graciously accepted the challenge. I’m thinking this HAS to be easier than trying to get a 2-year old to cooperate!!!

This past weekend, we drove over to the beach at Lake Michigan and had fun amidst the sand and sea grass. There’s a saying about how “the eyes are the window to the soul”. I think Jenny captured that perfectly with this photo.

So Close….

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It’s nice to have the beaches of Lake Michigan so close to home. From our front door, we can be in New Buffalo or the Dunes in just a half hour. Saturday evening was perfect for a drive over to New Buffalo – a warm, summer evening. The streets of this little town were bustling with tourists. From the looks of the license plates, most of them came around the lake from Chicago.

Kelli and Ben had a Senior Photo Shoot scheduled with Jenny Hoke, http://www.jennyhokephotography.com/ and Lisa and I tagged along to watch. Bob and Mark headed off to the nearest bar to watch some baseball, until we were ready to join them.

The beach front offered so many beautiful photo opportunities – the sea grass, the rocks, etc. While Kelli and Ben posed for Jenny, I found myself snapping away with my camera.

By the time the sun set, we met Bob and Mark at Redamak’s and finished our summer evening gorging ourselves on burgers, onion rings and milkshakes. It was the perfect ending to a wonderful day.

“The Best Day of the Summer”

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Yesterday, Carrie and I spent the day on Clear Lake at Fuller Resort in Buchanan, Michigan. The Ellam family had rented a cabin there for the week, and had invited us up to spend a day. We packed our cooler, grabbed the beach towels, sunscreen and floating apparatus and headed into Michigan for the day. The kids were like “fish” – spending most of their day in the lake. Grace loved digging in the sand for “she-shells” and Nolan was delighted to have Ben show him how to fish from the dock. The General Store offered 25 cent ice cream cones for the kids. And at the end of the day, Nolan said “Grandma, this was the best day of the summer”. I couldn’t help but agree. In fact, Carrie and I booked a cabin for next July – for the two of us and Kelli, along with Nolan, Grace and Jack. If our husband’s decide to join us – fine. If not, they’ll miss out on “the best WEEK of the summer”.

Welcome to the Family….

2009-07-17T09:28:00.001-04:00

We have a new “grandpuppy”. Katie and Santiago are the proud parents of Tex – a 9 week old Golden Retriever puppy, given to them by one of Katie’s co-workers as an early wedding gift. Tex was the last of litter. Katie said it was a little sad when she picked him up and he was sitting in the yard with his mom and dad. A few minutes later, he was perched “shotgun” in her car, driving back to South Bend to meet his dad and his big brother Meeko.

Softball Smiles

2009-07-17T09:13:00.003-04:00

Last weekend, we finished twenty years of travel softball - which began when Carrie was 14 years old. There were a couple of years where we had Katie and Colleen playing on an 18U team and Chrissie playing on a 16U team - and Bob and I splitting our time between the three of them. Those years were full of wonderful friendships, more than one trip to an emergency room and a chance to bond with our daughters over something that they loved. Kelli's final weekend was probably her best of the summer. I captured this photo of Kelli following a stand-up double (the first of three for that day). Nothing like finishing your summer season with a big smile on your face.

Alex: Down Under

2009-06-30T11:21:00.002-04:00

My nephew, Alex has spent the past month in Australia – visiting his sister Annie as she completed her student teaching. Annie has graciously stayed there an extra month to be a tour guide for her big brother. I’ll probably never make this trip, so I’m living vicariously through his photos. I can honestly say that I LOVE all his photos, except that shark adventure he went on. That kid ALWAYS was the daredevil of the family!!

Grandchildren…

2009-06-30T07:52:00.001-04:00

“are the butterflies in the Garden of My Life.”

My latest Design Team layout for Pages in Time.

Are You My Twin??

2009-06-25T07:52:00.001-04:00

Hey – are you my twin??

My mommy has a twin.

I wonder what my mommy and my Aunt Katie were thinking when they were my age and they looked at each other. My grandma says that mommy used to bite Aunt Katie, and Aunt Katie would just let her do it.

So, I’m asking you one more time – are you my twin??

The Frog Rescuers….

2009-06-20T20:46:00.001-04:00

The story began two weeks ago, when a large frog found himself trapped in the window well of Carrie and Joe’s house. This window well housed one of the basement egress windows, just outside of the kid’s playroom – and the frog would sit and watch the kids through the glass. Carrie knew he would eventually die, but she didn’t have the nerves to climb into the window well and rescue the stranded frog. Today, with Nolan and Kelli’s help, the frog was rescued and returned to safety in the lot behind their house. Nolan tried first, but even with a little prodding from a plastic putter, the frog wouldn’t jump into the bucket. Now, it was Aunt Kelli’s turn. And she was successful in convincing the frog that they were simply trying to save his life.

Miracle….

2009-06-18T08:40:00.002-04:00

You know how you have those events in your lifetime that you remember every detail of? October 19, 2008 will be one of those days for me. The excitement, the fear, the relief and the gratitude.

Some day, little A.J. can read about the miracle of his birth, thanks to my scrapbook page. My photographs didn’t turn out well (thanks to hospital lighting), but the photograph of father and daughter is one I’ll treasure forever.

The journaling reads as follows:

It started with a phone call at 8:30 p.m. on October 19th. "MOM, I think I'm in labor!" I tried to keep her calm, and told her to call the answering service. She had been suffering all day with a terrible case of the stomach flu. Ten minutes later, Jimmy called back to tell us that the doctor wanted to see her at the hospital. Her due date was still three weeks away, but little A. J. seemed to be in a hurry. As I stepped off the elevator on the third floor, I could hear her screaming. As Jimmy told me later, he felt we were "living an episode of ER, but this was happening to us." As nurses crowded around her, I tried to answer their questions. One nurse told me that most likely the sever stomach flu had forced her into labor. I heard someone say she was 9 centimeters dilated. Then her doctor appeared in the doorway and everything else seemed a blur - nurses tossing gowns to Jimmy and I and the doctor asking Colleen if she wanted to push, and then suddenly rushing her across the hall to surgery. Within minutes, we wer in our gowns and rushing through the door, only to be met by a nurse who told us they were doing an emergency c-section and we would have to wait in the hall. It couldn't have been more than three minutes and the nurse returned to tell us that the baby had been born and both of them were "ok" and the doctor would be out soon to talk with us. I walked down the hall looking for Bob and the kids, only to be met by my dear friend Mary Lou - with camera in hand. Within minutes, family started to arrive. Jimmy and Colleen left their home at 9:00. Andrew Joseph Van Fleit was born at 9:39 p.m. on his Grandpa Bob's birthday. The details of this night have been shared on more than one occasion, but the reality is that Colleen was "abrupting" and the doctor and staff had a matter of minutes to deliver the baby safely. For me, the most touching moment was when I saw Bob lean over her bed and I was able to capture it (thanks to Mary Lou's camera). From there, he went to meet his grandson. Every time I look at little A. J., I thank God for the "miracle" that he is.

Engaged

2009-06-17T16:55:00.003-04:00

The wedding is just two months away, and I’m still scrapbooking engagement photos from LAST summer. There’s currently no end in sight to my backlog of photos.

The "On Deck" Circle...

2009-06-17T14:29:00.002-04:00

A new inning begins. A pitcher takes her warm-up pitchers, the catcher throws down to second and the infield meets on the mound. At the same time, a batter waits on deck and another is “in the hole”.

As you can see here, Kelli and Lauren are watching the pitcher and mentally preparing themselves for their turn at bat.

That is, until you have to wait for the opposing catcher to get into her gear. At this point, the seriousness turns into an episode of Star Wars and the bats become light sabers.

May the force be with you!!

Tools of the Trade…..

2009-06-14T17:12:00.001-04:00

For nearly 20 years, Bob and I have been following our daughters throughout Indiana, Michigan and Illinois on summer softball travel teams. Living out of hotel rooms, packing coolers, numerous injuries and emergency rooms. But I wouldn’t trade those summers for the most glamorous vacations in the world. A month from now, the softball travels will come to an end, but the memories will last forever.

Summer Ball

2009-06-12T21:38:00.001-04:00

For the next three weekends, we’ll be on the road throughout Indiana with Kelli – living out of coolers, perched in our lawn chairs and working on our tans. This will also give me a chance to practice my “sport shots” with my new camera. The camera is doing an awesome job – it’s the photographer that needs some lessons.

Bahamas and Bo Bunny Mango

2009-06-09T08:50:00.001-04:00

I just completed this layout for Pages in Time using the new Bo Bunny Mango product line. Anything with the word “mango” in it works for me. I love the way this product looks with my photograph, AND it reminds me of the frozen peach/mango drinks aboard ship.

Ohhhhhh, how I wish I were there right now, sitting on the deck under the hot sun with a big foo-foo drink in hand. I can see it now, with the little umbrella hanging off the side. Maybe some day…..when these weddings are behind me.

Bridal Shower

2009-06-07T19:14:00.001-04:00

Today’s bridal shower was beautiful. The weather cooperated and the shower was held outdoors at the Blackthorn Golf Course. Our oldest flower girl Grace, considered herself to be a hostess of sorts. Before we knew it, she’d managed herself a tip cup and a couple of dollars. Don’t ask me how.

Melissa and Brianne (the Maid and Matron of Honor) outdid themselves on the decorations and the menu. Everyone was instructed to wear black and white, which was fun. Only the bride was allowed to “stand out”.

Here’s a few photos of our day…

Thursday in the Park

2009-06-05T22:13:00.001-04:00

Benjamin and Grandma spent a little time on the playground last night. He was so enthralled with the playground equipment, that I had to keep reminding him to look at me and SMILE. Every now and then, he granted me a fleeting moment of that sweet face.

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….and we can’t forget A.J.

Waddle, Waddle, Quack, Quack…

2009-06-04T14:02:00.001-04:00

Found these guys enjoying some peace and solitude on the bank of the St. Joe River. Peace and solitude until the woman in the white Lexus disturbed their nap. They tolerated me for a few moments.

…and then they gave me a wave of their little tail feathers and they were off to find a spot where weird women with cameras were not to be found.

LIBERTY

2009-06-03T16:53:00.001-04:00

Scentsy’s Warmer of the Month for June is entitled LIBERTY and it’s a personal favorite of mine. Thanks to our son’s six years of service in the United States Marine Corp, I have an Americana themed room in my home. LIBERTY will now have a place of honor in this room. During the month of June, LIBERTY is listed at 10% off the retail price - $27.00. If you’d like a little “liberty” in your home, drop me an email.

Footloose and Fancy Free….

2009-06-03T16:20:00.002-04:00

Oh, to have this much energy! These are some of the “girlfriends” of the baseball team. Note the matching shirts. One of them came up with this concept, and $15 later, they all have their boyfriend’s name and number on their back.

It really doesn’t seem that many years ago that I was a teenage girl, sitting in the stands cheering for my boyfriend on the baseball field. Now, he’s my husband, and too many years of baseball and softball are telling him that he needs a new hip.

I’d need one too if I tried this jump.

The Better Part of My Life….

2009-06-03T13:09:00.002-04:00

…is spent in this office. It’s little, but it’s mine. I have a window, which makes me happy. I can open it and smell the spring rain. I can look out and see the winter snow. I've recently been offered a larger office, but I turned it down because it doesn't have a window. I kind of like the compact size, because it doesn’t allow for clutter. And if you know me, you know I don’t like clutter. Everything has to be in it’s place. Unlike the five men who’s offices surround mine – and who can’t even SEE the top of their desks. And the best part is....I have a door. I can close it when things get to bad. Occasionally, that happens.

Notice my Scentsy warmer? That’s Doodlebud. It’s pink. My only piece of femininity in an environment full of men.

Standing Watch

2009-06-02T14:42:00.001-04:00

Spent part of my lunch hour driving through Sacred Heart Cemetery on the Notre Dame campus. So beautiful and peaceful. This statue caught my attention.

The Graduates…..

2009-05-29T10:54:00.001-04:00

My Pages in Time Design Team assignment for this month was “GRADUATION”. It’s been three years since I had a graduate, but I pulled out the photos of Kevin and his buddies and came up with this layout. These photos brought back such great memories of this group of boys, who used to lay around my family room playing video games, watching movies and emptying my refrigerator.

I miss those days.

Sisters…..

2009-05-28T21:36:00.001-04:00

I didn’t grow up with a sister, which is one reason I LOVE seeing my girls together. They fought constantly when they lived under my roof - but now as adults, they are best friends. The share a great group of friends too, which makes me look even more forward to the “antics” at our upcoming weddings.

My Current Existence

2009-05-26T11:58:00.001-04:00

Aside from working 40 hours a week and trying to maintain a sideline SCENTSY business and a home and a teenage daughter, I am now on the countdown of under 90 days until our first wedding of 2009.

Flowers and invitations are underway for wedding number 2, but my craft room is currently a sea of moss green, pink and wine – the August wedding. Still in need of a few more addresses, but basically the invitations are ready to go into the mail at the end of June. All the guest favors are completed and the bridesmaid’s flip flops have been decorated for a night of comfortable dancing. Except for adding a little “surprise” to the bouquets, they are also complete.

And as soon as all of this gets moved OUT, the dark purple and white for November will take it’s place.

Graduation 2009

2009-05-26T08:12:00.002-04:00

Kelli’s boyfriend Ben graduated from Clay High School over the weekend. Thanks to the ticket lottery, Ben’s mom was able to get an extra ticket for Kelli. Ben will be off to college this fall and Kelli will be a Senior. I have a feeling it will be a rough year for both of them.

Pretty in Pink…..

2009-05-19T08:46:00.001-04:00

According to the photographer (my talented friend, Jenny Hoke), Anna didn’t want to have much to do with Jenny at the beginning of the shoot. But she eventually became agreeable and even bestowed a kiss upon the photographer. I’m thinking this was a “test run” for the flower girl photos in August.

Technique of the Month

2009-05-18T12:28:00.001-04:00

My assignment for May was the Technique Table. This is my least favorite assignment and I’d put it off as long as humanly possible. The good news is that I won’t face this assignment again for another year!!

I have to admit that once I got it completed, I was actually happy with the results. When I first started scrapbooking, there were no Cricuts to give us paper pieced embellishments for our pages. Instead, we traced items from coloring books using our light boards, pieced them together and added them to our pages. Very time consuming, but I always loved the results. So, that’s what I did. I went back to my old pattern books and pieced these items for a layout, a picture frame and a Mother’s Day card. On the card, the flower is pieced with glitter beads added to the center. The moon and the baby have been pieced on the picture frame, and the cupid with the bow and arrow on the LITTLE HEARTBREAKER layout.

The Classic Pose…..

2009-05-13T11:38:00.002-04:00

Prom photos have changed over the years. Sometimes they like to do “silly” things – like the girl holding the guy’s tie over her shoulder. Kelli and Ben did this at their mid-winter dance in January and it was cute. But, when I wrote out the check for the prom photos, I requested “nothing silly”. Last night, she handed me the envelope of photos and smiled, and actually agreed with me – that you can’t go wrong with the classic pose.

Thanks Kelli and Ben – for granting my request. You both look WONDERFUL!!!

My Life…..

2009-05-07T16:45:00.001-04:00

This is a layout I did recently for Pages in Time. It pretty much sums up my life. After raising seven children, I now get to spoil and shower kisses upon six little people – the children of my children – four boys and two girls. All of these little individuals – Nolan, Grace, Jack Benjamin, Andrew (A.J.) and Anna – each so different in their personalities and all a new branch of this family tree.

I Haven’t Given Up My Favorite Hobby…

2009-05-04T15:19:00.001-04:00

Amidst wedding invitations (for two weddings), floral arrangements (for two weddings), and a new business venture – I still manage to find my way back for a few layouts now and then. I know that the time will come that life will calm down, and my pictures and supplies will be patiently waiting –waiting for me to preserve our family memories once again.

May’s Warmer of the Month

2009-04-29T14:50:00.002-04:00

The Warmer of the Month for May is entitled Othello. It is a traditional and masculine style – perfect Father’s Day gift for Dad’s office or study. Othello also compliments rooms decorated with leather furniture, metal accents and wood tones – a very classical design.

The fragrance is Oxford (a masculine blend of ginger and frankincense with cedar and amber). Oxford conjures up images of a wood-paneled library on a rainy evening.

Othello and Oxford are both offered at 10% off during the month of May.